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		<title>Shoulda-Coulda-Woulda Redux</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 13:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In response to comments:
&#8220;God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.&#8221;
When I was moving along, nicely, through my recovery I was working at things about 7 years and then I had a series of losses that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4613&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Person Who Left Me Doesn&#8217;t Miss Me</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 13:49:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hear it all the time, &#8220;I want him or her to miss me.&#8221;  or &#8220;I want to know I mattered.&#8221; or &#8220;How could he or she just go on like that as if I wasn&#8217;t there?&#8221;
We&#8217;ve talked time and time again on here and in the book about this holding onto the opinion [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4601&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Predicting the Future by the Past</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 20:23:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We climb to heaven most often on the ruins of our cherished plans, finding our failures were successes. ~ Amos Bronson Alcott
As the GPYP book is tag lined, the breakup of my first marriage was the best thing that ever happened to me.  In that marriage I was focused on my misery and hated [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4594&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Breaking NC: Danger!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 23:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes (okay a lot of times) when I read about an ex attempting to get one of the good readers of GPYP to break NC, this phrase comes to mind.  Like every time.

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		<title>The Horror That Can Be Reconcilliation</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/the-horror-that-can-be-reconcilliation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 21:09:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ On GPYP we don&#8217;t discuss reconcilliation attempts.  We just don&#8217;t.  Everything GPYP teaches comes from my personal and professional life and academic research.  Maybe there are therapists somewhere that have a high rate of reconcilliations that work out, but I have not personally experienced that.  Couple dynamics can be changed [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4578&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Grief and Depression Posts</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 02:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2008/06/01/grief-self-pity-and-depression-2/
http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/08/05/are-you-depressed-2/
http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2008/05/29/grief-ends-bank-on-it-believe-in-it/
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		<title>Transmogrification When They Break NC</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/10/25/transmogrification-when-they-break-nc/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 16:56:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[
So many people struggle with the random, out of the blue contact from the ex and let their heads whirl around no matter how much or how little they&#8217;ve said.  So many people ask the same question over and over again:  &#8220;I&#8217;ve been NC.  This person [the EX] called/wrote/contacted me out of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4565&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>10/24 Check-in Thread</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/10/24/1024-check-in-thread/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 03:13:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[New thread!
As always, if you had posted in the last one and it wasn’t answered, feel free to post here. We don’t want anyone to feel ignored!!
How is everyone doing?
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		<title>Answering Mail</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/10/24/answering-mail/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 03:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I try to answer email but I receive about 50 emails a week with about 25 asking for an individual answer that the sender does not want posted on the blog.  I can&#8217;t really answer emails unless I can do so on the blog.  If you want ME to know the background but [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4557&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Deciding to Move On</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/10/22/deciding-to-move-on-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I seem to run this every 3 months and it&#8217;s in response to an email I received today.  You can sit on your hands all you want and move away from the computer etc etc but after a while, nothing is going to help if you do not actively choose to move on.
I&#8217;ve run [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4553&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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