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		<title>&#8220;Should I Leave&#8221; Update</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 10:40:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven&#8217;t updated the &#8220;Should I Leave&#8221; blog because, thanks to the readers over there, I&#8217;m reading &#8220;Should You Leave&#8221; by Peter Kramer and &#8220;Too Bad to Stay, Too Good to StayLeave&#8221; by Mira Kirshenbaum.  
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		<title>Books. Make your recommendations/ask questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 10:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Someone asked that I put a post in about recommended books.  
Listed below are the books from the right hand side of the blog, but I want to open up the recommendations to readers.  I know that many of you have read Finding Your North Star and  other books and perhaps someone [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4006&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Mail. We Get Mail on &#8220;the good things&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/07/12/mail-we-get-mail-on-the-good-things/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 10:11:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Susan, first of all thank you for all that you do. 
How do we/ (did you when you have let go and left in the past), reconcile the good parts of your ex? I mean no matter how bad someone treats you there are wonderful qualities that don&#8217;t seem available in other people. What if [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=4001&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>7/10 Check in</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/07/09/710-check-in/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 01:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m going to start a new check in thread whenever the old one gets over 200 comments because it takes a long time to load.  It used to be about a week to get to 200 but it&#8217;s no longer taking that long.  So here is the new one.  As always, if [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=3997&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Bait and Switch</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 19:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, we&#8217;ve talked about &#8220;red flags&#8221; and we&#8217;ve talked about type.  Now we&#8217;re going to talk about getting out after the bait and switch.

Something MovingOn said about depressives in the &#8220;your type&#8221; post made me think of this.  
I was friends with a guy who was FUN&#8230;oh my goodness we had so much [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=3990&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Mail.  We Get More Mail on NC (than any other topic)</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/07/09/mail-we-get-more-mail-on-nc-than-any-other-topic/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 16:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Susan,
Your GPYP blog website has helped me out tremendously with my
breakup of a 3 1/2 yr relationship.  Thank you so much!  It has
been 8 months since I ended it because of verbal &#38; emotional
abuse.  It was very difficult for me to do as I loved her so
deeply.  The pain &#38; [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=3987&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What is your &#8220;type&#8221;?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 01:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;If you have always done it that way, it is probably wrong.&#8221; ~ Charles Kettering.
&#8220;If you do what you&#8217;ve always done, you&#8217;ll get what you&#8217;ve always gotten.&#8221; ~ anonymous
When we are challenged to change our lives we realize we are stuck in patterns, in habits, in doing things the same way over and over again. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=3985&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What is Not Yet In Front of You Redux</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/07/06/what-is-not-yet-in-front-of-you-redux/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:50:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wrote this last year and some of the comments seem to call for its replay.
I remember when I ended my last long-term relationship.  I had been involved with someone who would just disappear in order to gaze at his navel or some such thing (that was his official story but I think there [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=3982&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Self Acceptance</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 13:29:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The wounds of the past have sacrificed the heart.  The mind has cramped closed.  The body has entrophied in hard-bellied distrust.  But the feeling of loss, and being lost, eventually gets our attention and we see that no one can make us happy but us.  And we begin to take responsibility. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com&blog=578989&post=3975&subd=gettingpastyourpast&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Being Available versus Playing a Game III</title>
		<link>http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/07/03/being-available-versus-playing-a-game/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 17:54:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan J. Elliott</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kathy referenced this post in the comments.  I&#8217;ve posted it twice before and each time it generated A LOT of conversation.  So here it is again:
The original post:  Being Available Versus Playing A Game  (comments on this post are closed but feel free to comment on it here).
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