About: Susan J. Elliott
- Full Name
- Susan Elliott
- Website
- http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/
- Details
Posts by Susan J. Elliott:
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November 10, 2009 Forgiveness Redux
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November 8, 2009 Mail. We Get Mail When They Were or Are A Drug Addict
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November 8, 2009 Mail. We Get Mail on OCD and Long Distance and Choosing
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November 8, 2009 11/8 Check-in Thread
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November 5, 2009 Shoulda-Coulda-Woulda Redux
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November 3, 2009 The Person Who Left Me Doesn’t Miss Me
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October 30, 2009 Predicting the Future by the Past
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October 26, 2009 Breaking NC: Danger!
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October 26, 2009 The Horror That Can Be Reconcilliation
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October 25, 2009 Grief and Depression Posts
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October 25, 2009 Transmogrification When They Break NC
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October 24, 2009 10/24 Check-in Thread
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October 24, 2009 Answering Mail
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October 22, 2009 Deciding to Move On
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October 22, 2009 October NC Chips: Celebrate Victories; Share Challenges; Give and Get Support
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October 19, 2009 Thinking and Doing and Feeling
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October 18, 2009 Domestic Violence Awareness Month
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October 16, 2009 Closure Again
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October 16, 2009 Fear and Loathing in our Head
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October 16, 2009 10/16 New Check In Thread
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Most Popular Posts (past 24 - 48 hrs)
- Forgiveness Redux
- 11/8 Check-in Thread
- The Post-Breakup No-No List
- The Person Who Left Me Doesn't Miss Me
- Getting Past Your Breakup
- 12/29 TFTD ~ When The Person You Love Doesn't Love You
- Mail. We Get Mail on OCD and Long Distance and Choosing
- The Emotions of Grief During A Breakup
- The Horror That Can Be Reconcilliation
- Mail. We Get Mail When They Were or Are A Drug Addict
- On Being Friends With The Ex
- Shoulda-Coulda-Woulda Redux
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- lele4 on Forgiveness Redux
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- George In June on 11/8 Check-in Thread
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Women Who Use Sex As A Weapon
Commitment Now Interview
Water Seeks Its Own Level
Divorce 360: Controlling Spouses 2
Divorce 360: Controlling Spouses and Self-Esteem
On Cutting
HIPAA Violations of High Profile Clients like Britney Spears and George Clooney(skip the welcome screen)
Match.com: Love Over 40
Divorce 360: When Abuse Escalates to Deadly Violence
If You Combine Dr. Phil and Judge Judy,
You Get Susan Elliott
Motivational Speaker Puts Her Money Where Her Mouth Is
The Cinderella of Motivational Speaking
Helps Others Find the Glass Slipper
Letter to Newsweek
That's Crispy Spotlight
Yahoo Shine article
Facebook
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Information
Inspiration / Research
- Abuse Recovery from Narcissists
- Addiction and Recovery
- Ainsworth/Bowlby
- Art and Writing Retreat House
- Article on Stephen Levine
- Attachment Theory
- Breed Em and Weep
- Centering Corp
- Codependency Outline
- CommitmentNow.com
- Earnie Larsen
- Elisabeth Kubler Ross
- Elizabeth Harper Neeld
- eNotAlone
- From Sparkly to Single
- Grief Recovery Institute
- Harriet Lerner
- Healing Meditations
- It's All About Him
- John Bowlby Centre
- John Bradshaw
- Knitting at the Guillotine
- Melody Beattie
- Mindfulness
- Mindfulness Meditation
- Pacific Institute
- Psychorelatively & Mindfulness
- Self Growth
- Self Help Blog Directory
- Self Help Diva
- Sober Recovery
- Society Surf
- Soul Pancake
- Survivors in Action
- Susan Forward
- The Buddhist Yogini
- The Dating Dad
- The Worst Part
- Therese Rando
- Toxic Family Forum
- Unfinished Business
Justice for Lily
My Other Blogs
My Other Interests
- 30 Rock
- Big Bang Theory
- Blues
- book collecting
- Book Sense
- Chaucer
- Ellis Island
- Ephemeral New York
- Flight of the Conchords
- Forgotten New York
- Harley Davidson
- Italian
- Italy
- Jane Austen
- Law Blogs
- Marx Brothers
- MB Night At The Opera
- New York City
- New York Giants
- Point Reyes Books
- Ravelry
- Ricky Gervais
- Shakespeare
- The Bronx
- The Office (UK)
- The Office (US)
- Walt Whitman
My Publisher
NYY
Some of My Causes
- 46nyc
- AWAP
- Best Friends
- Center Against DV
- Conservation International
- Danger of Negligent Driving
- Exotic Animal Sanctuary
- GCO
- Giving Fund for Stephen and Ondrea Levine
- IFAW
- Left Lane Drivers
- Mom and Pop NYC
- Polar Bear Petition
- Polar Bear SOS
- Save The Children
- Spring Tide Resources
- Tiger Creek
- World Wildlife Foundation
Things That Amuse Me
Twelve Step Programs
Writing
Blogger Awards
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Topics Include:
-Grief and Loss
-Boundaries
-Affirmations
-Getting Over A Breakup
Act As If
-Goal Setting
-Loving Communications
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These are the most influential books and authors on my work. Click on link to go to their available works pm Amazon.
I love Moleskine for my journals. These are sites about the wonderful parchment. :)
As mentioned on the blog: Torch Song Trilogy
It's Time
Sound Oasis Sound Therapy System
Breathing: The Master Key to Self Healing (The Self Healing Series)
Green Tea Zen Calming Spa Bath and Body Set - a great Gift Basket for Her!
The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook (New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook)
Relaxation Spa Bath & Body Care Package Gift Basket with Teddy Bear
Helpful Columns
I did an AMAZING workshop with Krishnabai when I lived in Massachusetts and I love the columns on her site and she gave me permission to post a link here.
Here's a helpful Redbook/WebMD article on signs of a codependent relationship:
Here's a helpful column on boundaries:
Another great article on codependency:
Abusive Relationships Increase Risk of HIVEmail Support Groups
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Abuser Pwned by Judge Judy
The Michael A. DiCarlo Brain Tumor Foundation
I have set up a foundation in Michael's name through the Fidelity Charitable Gift Fund.All donations will go toward research for the prevention, detection and treatment of brain tumors.
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- Mail. We Get Mail When They Were or Are A Drug Addict
- Mail. We Get Mail on OCD and Long Distance and Choosing
- 11/8 Check-in Thread
- Shoulda-Coulda-Woulda Redux
- The Person Who Left Me Doesn’t Miss Me
- Predicting the Future by the Past
- Breaking NC: Danger!
- The Horror That Can Be Reconcilliation
- Grief and Depression Posts
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Most Recent Posts
- Forgiveness Redux
- Mail. We Get Mail When They Were or Are A Drug Addict
- Mail. We Get Mail on OCD and Long Distance and Choosing
- 11/8 Check-in Thread
- Shoulda-Coulda-Woulda Redux
- The Person Who Left Me Doesn’t Miss Me
- Predicting the Future by the Past
- Breaking NC: Danger!
- The Horror That Can Be Reconcilliation
- Grief and Depression Posts
- Transmogrification When They Break NC
- 10/24 Check-in Thread
- Answering Mail
- Deciding to Move On
- October NC Chips: Celebrate Victories; Share Challenges; Give and Get Support
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